Realistic Asia

One of the nicer hotels we've stayed in anywhere. Beautiful and comfortable.

This is a good hotel. The food is limited for vegetarians, but no more so than the rest of the country. Staff are friendly and responsive.

Wonderful hotel with a friendly and attentive staff. We loved the rooftop bar and spent our downtime there just chatting and enjoying the beatiful view at sunset.

Time on the water was a really nice experience.

Bantay Srei might be our favorite temple. It is breathtaking. Kulen Mountain was a late addition to our itinerary as we had read about it. When we saw the "River of 1,000 Lingas," we realized that what we had in mind a different part of the river and asked our guide. Sure enough, what we had hoped to see was a short hike away and after a quick exchange with Hien, we drove to the trail head. The hike itself was strenuous (though short) but the carvings at the top were breathtaking. I know I'm using that word too much but... everything was truly amazing.

There aren't words to match the majesty of these sites. sunrise at Angkor Wat is not to be missed.

this was a fun evening. The dinner was surprisingly good and the venue was quite nice.

Same comment for all of Siem Reap -- these are sights that defy description. The human ingenuity they represent is staggering and humbling.

The sacred mountain was beautiful and terrible all at once, as it is the site of one of the many killing fields in the country. The exit of the thousands (millions?) of bats from the cave in the sacred mountain was breathtaking -- highly recommend this activity.

Our drive through the countryside was beautiful and we had a lot of fun shopping for the handcrafted silver items. At the end of our trip, (after the time in Siem Reap) we asked to add an outing to an animal sanctuary. Hien pulled it together with our same guide, and we were able to end our trip with this wonderful activity.

Wonderful day of sightseeing with our friendly guide providing the historical context for everything we see. The Tuol Sleng museum is a must-see, though it is difficult to process the horror that took place there.

Our stay at Little Hoi An Boutique Hotel was genuinely enjoyable and easy. The location is a real advantage. The hotel is within walking distance of the Old Town and many key attractions, which made getting around simple and relaxed. The free bicycles were a big plus for us—we used them and especially enjoyed a morning ride out to the rice fields just outside of town. Quiet roads, flat terrain, and a peaceful start to the day. The room was clean, well maintained, and practical, with enough space for two people and their luggage. The hotel has a calm, classic feel that suits Hoi An well. Staff were welcoming and attentive, and service felt genuine rather than rehearsed. Breakfast was solid, with good options to start the day. Overall, a comfortable, well-located boutique hotel with thoughtful extras that actually get used. A great base for exploring Hoi An, both on foot and by bike.

Our stay at Lynnaya Urban River Resort was excellent from start to finish. We wished we coukd stay longer. The room was very comfortable and thoughtfully designed, with ample space for two people and their luggage—no feeling of being cramped or having to rearrange bags constantly. The room layout really works. The outdoor shower was a standout feature: well executed, private, and honestly a pleasure to use. It added character without sacrificing comfort. Service was top notch throughout the stay. Staff were attentive, warm, and genuinely focused on making things easy and pleasant, without ever feeling scripted or overbearing. Breakfast was another strong point, with good options and solid quality, making mornings relaxed and unrushed. Overall, this is a fantastic hotel—comfortable, well designed, and very well run. A great base in Siem Reap and an easy place to recommend.

The room at White Lotus Hue Hotel was comfortable for two people traveling with luggage, which immediately made the stay easier. There was enough space to move around without constantly negotiating bags, and the room felt practical and wibell set up. Service was very good throughout—staff were attentive, friendly, and handled things efficiently. The central location is another strong point, making it easy to walk to key sights or get around Huế without much planning. Breakfast was the only minor downside. Although there was plenty of excellent food and seating, the buffet area felt chaotic, with a lot of pushing and shoving (by the hotel guests) that took away from what should have been a relaxed start to the day. Overall, a solid and convenient hotel with good service and comfort, slightly let down by breakfast organization.

The boat itself, Dora and all the other boats, stayed anchored most of the time, or moved very little. Practically everything—boarding at the port, excursions, and disembarkation—was done via small, simple shuttle boats. They were functional, not luxurious, and clearly built for logistics rather than comfort. In that sense, Dora operates more as a floating hotel than a true cruise ship. You eat on board, sleep on board, relax on deck, and enjoy the scenery from a fixed position in the bay. Explorations are done on a transporter boat. worth noting is that the sense of peace and quiet is not available . The Dora & Nearby boats run their engines frequently—even when anchored—and the smell of diesel and engine noise is quite unpleasant, which detracts from the otherwise serene setting. The staff deserves real credit. They were consistently friendly, attentive, and accommodating. Service felt warm and genuine. The food was good, well prepared and reliable, but not especially memorable or adventurous. The activities, while well organized, felt manufactured. They follow a polished script designed to move many guests efficiently through a curated version of the experience. it lacks authenticity, spontaneity or a sense of discovery. Stepping back, Ha Long Bay is undeniably beautiful. Still, after going through the full program, I’m left thinking that a well-planned day trip from Hanoi is probably sufficient to experience the bay’s essence. An overnight cruise adds comfort and atmosphere, but not necessarily deeper access or insight. In short: comfortable, pleasant, professionally run. but our goal is simply to understand and appreciate the bay, and we don’t need more than a day trip. But look for service the offers kayaking as it was the highlight of our trip on Hà Lin Bay

We really enjoyed our stay at Le Close du Fil Hotel. The rooms were spacious, clean, and genuinely comfortable, with plenty of room to settle in and relax. We especially liked the French colonial vibe—the décor is tasteful, cohesive, and gives the place real character without feeling heavy or overdone. Breakfast was good . There were choices available, and everything was freshly made, which made mornings easy and enjoyable. Overall, a comfortable and well-run hotel with charm, space, and a strong breakfast. A solid base for exploring Ninh Bình.

The Gateway Inn Pu Luong's staff provided excellent service throughout our stay and were consistently attentive and welcoming. The food options were good, well prepared, and thoughtfully presented. The rooms themselves were clean to a certain extend. However, upon check-in, some of the cups in the room and the bathroom did not appear to be clean, which was a minor but noticeable issue. Some doors did not close properly which allow flys to get in. In addition, the rooms are very rustic, which may appeal to some travelers but felt overly basic for our expectations. The room was very small without any storage space. The wet bathroom had only a sink with no counter space and storage. Furthermore, there was a hole in the wall (30x30 cm) that allowed curious guests to look into our bathroom,. We also experienced that the hot water running out mid shower each time.

We had a front-facing room with a balcony, which unfortunately reduced the usable room size quite a bit. For two people traveling with luggage, the space already felt tight, and the balcony layout made it more so. Because of street noise, we didn’t end up using the balcony at all, so it felt like wasted space. Welcoming and friendly service and an excellent breakfast, but as space matters, a quieter, non-balcony room might be the better choice.

We spent the day Exploring the Natural Beauty of Ninh Binh (Tam Coc – Hang Mua – Bich Dong) with Trung as our guide, and overall it was a very rewarding experience. Trung did an excellent job leading the day. He was organized, clear, and informative without overwhelming us. Climbing the 500 steps up Ngoa Long Mountain at Hang Mua was a highlight. It’s a proper climb — you feel it in your legs — but the view at the top absolutely justifies the effort. Dramatic limestone peaks, river winding below, rice fields stretching out. It’s the kind of panorama that makes you pause for a moment. The bike ride was another enjoyable part of the day. Cycling through the countryside, passing small villages and open fields, gave us a more grounded feel for the area. It broke up the itinerary nicely and kept the day active. The boat ride in Tam Coc was pleasant, though more structured than I expected. We followed a fixed route, and while the scenery is beautiful, there’s limited opportunity to stop or explore the temples along the river. I would rate that portion around 3/5 — still worthwhile, just less flexible than I had hoped. Overall, Trung made the experience smooth and engaging. His steady guidance, local insight, and calm presence tied everything together. Ninh Binh is visually stunning, and having a knowledgeable guide like Trung makes it much more than just a photo stop.

This was truly one of the more unique cultural experiences we’ve had in Vietnam. The Hanoi city tour itself was very informative and engagin6g. It gave us useful historical and cultural context, not just the usual checklist of sites. We walked away understanding the layers of the city — imperial history, French influence, modern Vietnam — all woven together in a way that made sense. But the highlight was unquestionably the private water puppet experience with Artist Phan Thanh Liem. Meeting the artist himself — the puppeteer who actually creates the puppets — and his wife in their home studio added an entirely different dimension. This wasn’t a staged tourist production. It felt personal. Intimate. Authentic. Seeing how the puppets are carved, painted, and brought to life made the performance far more meaningful. The show itself was charming and skillful, but what stayed with us was the conversation afterward. Hearing about his family’s history in this traditional art form, and the effort to preserve it, gave real depth to what we were watching

What struck me first was the absence of performance. No riding. No tricks. No staged theatrics. The elephants simply walked — slowly, deliberately — through the forest. We followed at their pace, not the other way around. That small inversion changes everything. The guides explained the background of each elephant, most rescued from logging or tourism work. You could see the shift in their behavior — calmer, less reactive. It did not feel like a zoo. It felt like a retirement community in the jungle Banteay Srei highlights craftsmanship. The pink sandstone allows for remarkably fine detail. The carvings — mythological scenes and delicate floral patterns — are precise, almost lace-like. It is compact, elegant, and focused. If you want to understand the artistic language of the Khmer temples without being overwhelmed by scale, this is the place to start.

Angkor at sunrise is worth every minute of lost sleep. Standing before Angkor Wat as the first light touches the towers is something you don’t quite forget. The silhouettes slowly sharpen, the sky shifts from indigo to gold, and for a few quiet minutes the entire complex feels suspended in time. Then the day unfolds — temple after temple, each with its own scale, texture, and story. It’s physically long, but intellectually and emotionally absorbing. Inside one of the active temples, we were invited to sit while a Buddhist monk offered a brief blessing. It was understated and sincere. A soft chant, a light sprinkle of water, a red thread tied around the wrist. No theatrics, no performance — just a simple ritual that reminded us these are not ruins. They are living spaces of faith. By evening, We came across a local family honoring their ancestors, through music and dancing. There was rhythm and laughter. It felt joyful rather than solemn. Not staged. Just life unfolding naturally beside thousand-year-old stone. That layering — sunrise over an ancient empire, quiet spiritual blessing, then living cultural celebration — is what made the day feel complete. Angkor is history, yes. But it is also very much alive.

Riding bikes with Ms. Thanh through Hue — and then into the smaller surrounding communities — gave us a much broader perspective of the city. It’s one thing to visit monuments, citydels , and historic sites. It’s another to cycle through neighborhoods, cross small bridges, pass schoolyards, markets, and homes, and see daily life unfolding naturally. The rhythm is different when you’re on a bike. Slower. Closer to the ground. More human. What made it especially meaningful was the interaction with local families. Through Ms. Thanh’s introductions, we were able to have real conversations — simple, genuine exchanges — and get a glimpse into how people actually live. Seeing their homes, understanding their routines, hearing about their work and family life added a layer you simply don’t get from sightseeing alone. It didn’t feel staged. It felt respectful and authentic. For us, this was a fantastic experience — one that moved beyond tourism and into something more personal and memorable.

Trung, our guide, made the experience. He wasn’t just reciting facts — he explained context. History, local customs, farming practices, village dynamics — all delivered in a clear, thoughtful way that made everything feel connected rather than staged. You could tell he genuinely understands the region and cares about sharing it properly. The village visits felt authentic, not performative. We walked through working indigenous communities, saw how families live, how crops are grown, how small local economies function. It was real life, not a curated “tourist version.” The bamboo rafting was simple and peaceful. No engines, no rush — just drifting with the landscape around us. A nice counterbalance to the walking portions of the day. The cultural walk itself was well paced. Enough activity to feel engaged, but not exhausting. A good mix of activity and culture Overall, If one is looking to understand the area beyond the surface, this is absolutely worth your time.

The costumes were detailed and elegant, the hand gestures precise, and the choreography disciplined. There is no question that Cambodian classical dance is technically beautiful. That said, we found myself missing context. We had little understanding of the storyline, the mythological background, or what each dance represented. Without explanation, it becomes visually impressive but emotionally distant. A short introduction before each segment would have made a significant difference. I also have to admit it felt somewhat staged for tourists. The dinner format, the flow of groups in and out, the predictable structure — it lacked a sense of intimacy or spontaneity. It felt curated rather than lived. Interestingly, the next day we came across a local village “celebration of life” ceremony. No stage lighting. No polished choreography. Just music, movement, community, and authenticity. That experience was captivating in a completely different way — real, unfiltered, grounded in daily life.

Seeing Hue at night from a cyclo gives you a completely different perspective. The pace is slow, but traffic was not. 😁 You glide streets, past the river, through small alleys you would never think to enter on your own. It’s relaxed and immersive at the same time. The food was the real highlight. Hue cuisine is distinct — more refined, more layered, slightly imperial in character. This tour allowed us to sample a wide variety of local dishes in places we would not have found independently. Small family-run spots, street vendors, modest restaurants. Nothing fancy, but authentic and well chosen. What I appreciated most was the structure. It wasn’t just eating for the sake of eating. The tour guide Ms. Thanh. Provided explanation. Why certain dishes are specific to Hue. How royal cuisine influenced portion size and presentation. How flavors here differ from Hanoi or Saigon. By the end of the evening, we weren’t just full — we understood Hue better.

We did a city tour of Hue, and it’s genuinely a very interesting and beautiful place. There’s real historical depth here — imperial legacy, layered architecture, and a sense of Vietnam’s past that still feels present. The Citadel alone carries enough stories to fill a full day. Hue has an exciting past. Dynasties, wars, reconstruction — you can feel that this city has seen a lot. It’s not just another stop on the map. That said, I couldn’t help but feel that with a stronger guide, the experience could have been truly amazing. The sites themselves are powerful, but they need context, narrative, and storytelling to bring them fully to life. We received information, but not quite the depth or energy that would have transformed the visit from interesting to unforgettable. Hue deserves a guide who can connect the dots, explain the political and cultural shifts, and make the emperors, battles, and architecture feel alive again. Still, as a destination, Hue is absolutely worth visiting. Just make sure you have a guide who can elevate it to the level it deserves.

The Hoi An Teh Dar Show was visually impressive and highly athletic. The scale of the production is striking — stage, elaborate costumes, coordinated choreography. The performers are remarkably skilled, and the mix of music and dance keeps the energy high throughout. It’s clearly a major production, and while it leans theatrical rather than intimate, it delivers strong visual impact. We enjoyed it. The RÊU dinner that followed was, in many ways, the highlight of the evening. The food are the RÊU was superb — fresh, thoughtfully prepared, and rooted in a genuine farm-to-table philosophy. Knowing the ingredients come from their own organic farm adds credibility, but more importantly, you can taste the difference. The setting was calm and welcoming, a nice contrast to the scale of the show. Overall, a well-rounded evening: spectacle on stage, and substance on the plate.

The bike rides through the rice paddies outside Hoi An were easily the best part of our time there. Within minutes of leaving the busy old town, everything changes. The noise fades. The air feels different. Wide stretches of green rice fields open up on both sides, broken only by small farm paths, water buffalo, and the occasional farmer tending crops. It’s peaceful in a way the town itself simply isn’t. The terrain is mostly flat and manageable, making it accessible even if you’re not a serious cyclist. You can ride at your own pace, stop for photos, or just take in the landscape. There’s something grounding about being in working farmland rather than a curated tourist space. What we appreciated most was the contrast. After navigating crowded streets, the paddies felt authentic and unforced. Just daily life unfolding around you. If you do go to Hoi An, don’t miss this. And if possible, go early in the morning when the light is soft and the paths are quiet. That’s when it feels most real.

Boarding the Dora was smooth and handled efficiently. Everything worked like a well-oiled machine — organized, structured, and clearly something the crew does day in and day out. That said, it also felt mechanical. The process was efficient, but somewhat impersonal. There wasn’t much of a personal touch or sense of welcome that made us feel like guests rather than passengers being processed. It wasn’t problematic — just transactional.

This was, without question, one of the highlight of our time in Vietnam. Two full days of hiking through Pu Luong’s valleys, indigenous villages, farms, and layered rice paddies — it felt real, unfiltered, and beautifully human. The landscape is stunning . Green. Alive. Walking through working farms and seeing daily life unfold gave the experience depth. Nothing felt staged. It felt authentic and grounded. The hike to Hieu Waterfall was equally rewarding. Lush surroundings, fresh water, and a sense of calm that you simply don’t find in the more touristic areas. Exploringi. It was an active two days, but deeply satisfying. If someone asked me what felt most genuine in Vietnam, this would be it. A fantastic experience.

Hoi An was beautiful, but also extremely crowded during our visit. The volume of tourists negatively impacted the experience. The city tour ended up being cut short because the streets were simply too congested to move comfortably or pause for meaningful explanations. It became more about navigating through the crowds than actually absorbing the history and atmosphere of the old town. The evening boat ride and lantern experience, which we had hoped would feel magical, came across as rushed and highly commercialized. With so many boats operating at once and constant activity around us, there was no sense of ospirituality. Instead of feeling reflective or intimate, it felt more like a coordinated production line. There is still charm in Hoi An, but timing and expectations matter. In peak hours, the experience can feel more touristic than transcendent.

The final day of the cruise felt somewhat staged more than we had hoped. The activities seemed designed more to fit a standard program as the Dora switched the 2 groups than to offer a genuine sense of an experience . It gave the impression of a scripted experience rather than something organic and Intersting Disembarkation, much like boarding, was efficient and well organized. Everything moved smoothly and on schedule, which we appreciated. Overall, the logistics were handled professionally — we just would have preferred a more natural and immersive interaction to the journey.

This particular activity felt manufactured activity that was lacking any meaningful context. We were hoping for a deeper introduction to the local indigenous community — their history, traditions, and way of life — but that connection was largely missing. The bike ride itself was pleasant enough, but it felt more like a staged tourist add-on than an authentic cultural experience. Without proper background or real interaction, it came across as something designed primarily for visitors rather than something rooted in genuine local engagement. It wasn’t unpleasant — just a bit superficial. With more context, storytelling, or direct community involvement, it could have been far more impactful.

Really nice hotel and a beautiful room. Excellent service and breakfasts were very good. Loved the location. Great restaurants and walking around area. A good experience and good value.

Just wanted to relax on the boat with a cappuccino in the early morning so we did not participate.

Loved the cave experience. Really not for people with mobility issues or stamina issues. The cave was impressive and I really enjoyed going in.

this tour was a little too contrived or touristy for me. I would have loved to hear more about what part the Mekong Delta played in the war. Interesting but a little to touristy.

Tour was great . Notre Dame was under repair. Could have left the Post Office out and a little longer at the War Museum. A lot to see and experience.

Highly recommended . Loved this. Great feel for driving in Ho Chi Mingh. Crazy!

This was worth every penny.

All of the staff were helpful, but MAI was exceptional. The food, grounds, gym, were all great. This is the only resort with a dry sauna and steam room our curator could find.